I feel that the “partnership of healing” is a very important dynamic and needs much more written about it. This has not been an easy column to write and has made me take a step back and look at the principles of healing. If you engage a healer, coach or counselor to support you in [...]

Is change hard? Not with support. Without support, it can be very difficult. Some people have great difficulty is asking for help and that in itself is this aspect they need to change! If there was one rule about our life I could change, it would be that as humans we have a default setting [...]

The “partnership of healing” with your healer is a very important dynamic. If you engage a healer, coach or counselor to support you in creating a breakthrough, you have to be a partner in your own healing. A few times over the years, I have had clients that have a desire to heal or create [...]

In the last week, I have been working on compassion for myself but not in my present-day adult life but in the life of my inner-child. I called a healer/medical intuitive friend about some physical discomfort I was having. She picked up an incident that happened in my childhood that I was completely unaware of. [...]

What makes you feel happy? What makes you feel happy when you absolutely have to feel happy? I know it’s out there for you! For me, it’s watching video clips from the “Rock Star Inxs” series. If I get into a bad place and go online and watch a few clips, bam, I’m in a [...]

You meet a stranger and for some reason in that moment you mention you are cancer survivor and find out they’re also a survivor or presently going thru treatment. Cancer survivors and patients have a way of running into each other. I would encourage you to focus on conveying hope in those moments. And also, [...]

A number of years ago, I ended a relationship because it lacked an essential component for success and happiness. I saw for the first time very clearly what is needed to create a long-term rewarding relationship. This theme keeps coming in the last few months in my work with clients here in Sedona and on [...]

I got an email from a regular client a few days ago wanting to cancel her phone appointment because she was doing well. Now this was a client that is working with me prior to her coming here for retreat. I have had a handful of clients do this in addition to enrolling in the [...]

Dr. Nicholas Gonzales is an immunologist trained at Sloane Kettering; he is one is one of the few doctors having success with pancreatic cancer and other zero percent survival cases. One of the rules I got from Dr. Nicholas Gonzales was to stay with one treatment protocol and doctor for a specific amount of time [...]

A few months ago, a client commented that she was really glad I was talking about “listening”. She felt it was the big hole in personal growth literature. I have to agree and I wish more spiritual writers were talking about “how to listen.” Why is it important? Because it’s how you cross over the [...]