Everybody has a different concept of the term “Mr. Right”. Dating a nice man over 40 is one thing. But knowing if he’s the right one for you is a different story. Other women date just for the sake of dating. They just enjoy being with others’ company and they are far from getting serious. Some women date because that’s what the society dictates. Some of their friends might have been pressuring them to go out and meet guys. But several women are out on the dating scene with high hopes of meeting the right man.
For these women, they are baffled by how to tell whether they are dating Mr. Right. If you are now dating someone who could be ‘The One’, slow down. There are certain things that you have to know first before considering a serious commitment. Committing to someone either through marriage or just a long-term relationship is not a joke. It takes deep emotional investment. This could bring you to a lot of pain once proven that you were wrong about him. Here are some signals to know whether he’s the right one for you.
Your family members and friends also like him. They are the people who care and love you the most. These people only want what is best for you. If they approved of the guy you’re dating, then that means they feel he’s a good guy.
He values and respects all that is of great importance to you. Even if he doesn’t like animals, he would still play with your dog or cat. He would also be supportive of your career, hobbies, etc. The guy would have no problems with you going on a girl’s night out with your gal pals. He would please the people close to your heart like family members and close friends. He would even go with you to Sunday mass even if he’s a nonbeliever. All of these are indications that you are dating a nice man after 40.
He genuinely listens to you whenever you’re saying something and respects your priorities. Most guys out there would appear to be listening to you, but their mind would be elsewhere. You would know that a guy loves you if he sincerely listens to everything you are saying and remembers it.
He also has the same views in life as you. It’s uncommon to meet a guy who shares the same interests, not to mention your ideals in life. But in case you were able to find a man like this, then consider yourself lucky. Your relationship with the guy is bound to succeed.
He is devoted to you. The guy is not gaining your trust through words, but through actions. He gives you the feeling that he can be trusted. This only shows that he truly cares about you. He would never do anything to jeopardize the relationship and make you lose faith in him.
He is not scared to talk about the future. Some men freak out once a woman start the “future” talk. But dating a nice man over 40 who is ready to settle down and love you so much, will consider a future with you.